What not to include in your online dating profile

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When it comes to online dating, your profile is the first representation of you that a potential date has access to. This means you need to make the right impression throughout your profile in order for them to start talking to you.

There's no point in being great in conversation if your online dating profile breaks all the rules. After all, who's going to message you back if your profile is offensive, incomplete or blank?

Here are some of things you definitely shouldn't do if you want to stand a chance in the romance department.

Don't lie

It can be tempting to bend the truth a bit when it comes to your profile in an attempt to make yourself look more attractive to potential partners. This can mean lying about your job, living situation, appearance or even using an image that is photoshopped, old or not even of you.

However, the truth will eventually come out and whether this happens during an initial online conversation or after you've met a person face to face, it won't paint you in a good light. 

With this in mind, if you want a meaningful relationship to come out of your online dating experience, you need to be truthful. You don't have to tell your whole story, but everything you write in your profile should be factual.

Don't set your expectations too high

If you're going to include in your profile what type of partner you're looking for, don't reach for the stars. If you write a long list of what you're looking for, hardly anyone will contact you as they will feel as though they can't live up to your expectations.

Instead of saying everything that would make up your perfect partner, keep it simple. Stating that you are looking for a non-smoker who enjoys foreign films is really all you need and will likely increase the number of people who contact you.

You'll be able to tell if someone is right after talking to them, so give yourself a chance and don't scare everyone off straight away.

Don't include your life story

Including too many details about yourself in general is a big pitfall. You should try and keep your profile simple, easy to digest and informative without including a novel. 

If you put too much info onto your profile, it leaves you with very little ground to cover when it comes to people getting to know you. It can also be very off-putting for potential matches, who are more likely to skip over you completely.

Keep your information to a minimum. After all, less is more.

Avoid cliches

Cliches are one of the worst things you can include in your online dating profile. They make it cheesy and offer no insight into your personality. Just as cliches in a CV make you look generic, including them in your online dating profile shows a lack of originality and personality.

Tell people what you really enjoy or what foods you really like rather than simply including things you think they want to hear. Not only is this more honest, it shows that you're a real person who is worth talking to.  

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